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Overcoming the Odds

By Rachel Peine
SSM DePaul Health Center

Watch the inspiring story of Mellve Shahid, an SSM Cancer Care patient at DePaul Health Center, who overcame an agressive form of prostate cancer and is now helping others who face the disease.
 

Thankful
Dr Kevin Weikart has been my husband's primary physician for almost 20 years and helped him through some serious health concerns. We are so very thankful for all his years of dedication and support. Even while my husband was away at college in Indiana, Dr Weikart would call him late at night about any concerns he was having with his medical condition.  Even now we can address problems and concerns with immediate attention.
 
Thank you for all you do Dr Weikart!!!
 
Sincerely,
Jennifer Moss RN
A Second Chance

By Rachel Peine, Communications Specialist, North Operating Group

After a drunk driver hit Jerry Grossman head-on in November 2007, his life would dramatically change forever.

Jerry met his wife Debby after work for dinner on the evening of Nov. 30. After dinner, the two headed home in separate cars, with Jerry just four car lengths ahead of his wife. He was traveling east on Mexico Road toward O’Fallon and came up to the crest of a hill when he was hit by a woman driving 65 mph. The force of the accident killed the woman instantly. Jerry suffered a compound-fractured femur, broken arm, broken ribs, a crushed ankle…the list goes on.

 “I never saw it coming, and I don’t really remember it,” Jerry explains. “I’ve had some flashbacks of the noise of the impact.”

Debby immediately ran over to help her husband, but she was unable to open the driver’s side door. “I remember telling my wife, ‘I’m sorry. I love you, but I’m not going to make it,’” he recalls.

Out of nowhere a woman approached Jerry’s car to help. “My wife asked her who she was. She said, ‘I’m a nurse, I will take care of him,’” Jerry says. “She told me not to be frightened and comforted me.”

Jerry says he is still alive because of God’s blessings. “The lady was an angel sent here to watch over me,” he says. “The police never got her name or spoke to her. I simply wanted to thank her.”

Jerry was rushed by ambulance to SSM St. Joseph Health Center in St. Charles. Plates, screws, pins and rods were used to repair Jerry’s broken, fractured and crushed bones.

“I overheard my daughter Lauren telling my wife, ‘I’m not sure if Dad is ever going to walk again,’” Jerry says. “I remember waking up and asking her what was she talking about?  She then told me that I had to get better because I was going to be a grandfather.” 

Jerry spent four days in ICU Rehab and then stayed another 17 days in SSM Rehab at the hospital. Each day he was challenged by his nurses and therapists who cared for him. He had to do many exercises from his wheelchair.

“The process of exercises they wanted me to do was so hard for me to learn, and I’m not a patient man,” he says, “but I made up my mind that I would survive this. The nurses and therapists had unconditional love and kindness. Those people are God’s gift.”

With injuries on opposite sides of his body, Jerry had a tough time with some exercises. It was difficult learning how to support and balance himself. Learning to use the walker was the most difficult. He had to embrace the ideas provided by his therapist to take the necessary steps to forward his healing process.

“There was one time when the therapists wanted me to take a step back and up with the walker, and I told them, ‘I’m not doing it,’” he recounts. “My therapist very succinctly said, ‘Mr. Grossman, ‘not’ is not a word in your vocabulary!’ You have to make up your mind that everyone in that hospital wants to help you. If you do what they ask, have a positive attitude, faith and the never quit believing, you will get better.”

This tough love would allow Jerry to become strong again, and soon he was able to go home. With the help of visits from his at-home physical and occupational therapists, he was able to return to limited work in his financial services group three months after his accident.

Jerry knew from the first week of his stay that he wanted to somehow thank the SSM Rehab department at St. Joseph Health Center. He spent months thinking about the perfect gesture and decided to create a permanent testimonial that others could read and gain confidence that they, too, could be healed. 

“It was such a big deal for us personally because he wrote a tribute to the unit, framed it and delivered it to us on Christmas Eve,” said Sarah Cull-Bozich, director of SSM Rehab at St. Joseph Health Center. “It is a beautiful testimonial. It warms your heart just to read it.”

Jerry says he’s taken the kindness of the physicians, therapists and nurses and St. Joseph Health Center and has made it part of his practice by offering free financial advice to seniors who have been in the military and need assistance with their health care costs. 

“I am so grateful to all the doctors, nurses and staff that provided such wonderful care for me,” Jerry says. “It changed my whole life, and it has made me more compassionate about others. I have a lot more understanding for people going through the same thing. St. Joseph Health Center will always have a special place in my heart. I will keep them in my prayers forever.”

Everything is Possible When You Meet the Best Doctor!
In January I was hospitalized at St. Mary's for a pulmonary issue. During my 8 day stay I was referred to Dr. Reza Rofougaran, who specializes in Endocrinology. For years my diabetes had been out of control. I had seen other specialist for my condition but had never been able to get  it in check. During my hospitalization Dr. Rofougaran visited me often  and provided me with best care ever. Regardless of the time of day his willingness to listen and take appropriate action was amazing. One conversation that stands out is when I asked him not to give up on me. His response was that he would not, and for me not to give up on him. Six months later my A1C has improved, I've lost weight and have a new attitude about my health. With poor health not alot is possible. With it Everything Is! Thank-You Dr. Rofougaran for your continued care, your the best! It's physicians like you that give SSM Health Care such a great name! Sincerely, Linda Schweiger
Very Happy
I started with SSM St. Clare on April 12 after being at another health care institution for 18 years.  I have to say, this has been the best move and I am not only happy being here, but very honored to be a part of SSM.  I was able to Mission Days and could not be more impressed and moved!  What a way to honor ALL employees and make each of  us feel like we are a part of something special.  I am looking forward to my time here at SSM and proud of being a part of something very special.  I have always believed everything is possible and now I can live that philosophy even more than I ever have!
 
Maria Webb RN, BSN
CDMP
Mission Days 2010
I really just had to share my joy about mission day 2010,this was my first opportunity to attend this wonderful event and I wanted to say that I am very pleased with what SSM had to offer. There are not very many places that you can go work and be reminded of why you work for that company,how and why the company was started, and refresh you in the process! The keynote speaker did an exceptional job, I am very happy that I had the option of listening to her speak.(Dr. Bertice Berry) I am also grateful to know the hospitals financial situation (its great yay!!) how they use some of the money to fund state of the art equipment,to rebuild/remodel for the needs of patients and visitors,and most of all to keep us employed, it shocked me a little that they took out time to actully give us that info most places keep that information under wraps, soI really hope that people here feel as happy as me when they leave mission day. I try my best to keep a positive attitude everyday and not to take things personal on a daily, so after attending this event  I am definately going to enhance that by taking a peice of that day with me to guide me when those stressful moments come about. I am very happy that I chose to work for SSM,I know that everything is possible :)
Man on a Mission

By Rachel Peine, Communications Specialist
North Operating Group

When Dennis Tuchalski isn’t working as a respiratory therapist at SSM St. Joseph Health Center, you’ll likely find him half way across the world.

But don’t expect to find him on vacation. His personal mission is to travel to third-world countries to provide much-needed medical care. It’s almost like a second career for him.

“You get to do things you aren’t used to doing, which is a great learning experience,” Dennis explains. “These trips have taught me to be versatile.”

He’s been to the poorest places, including Honduras, Haiti, and is soon traveling to Bulgaria. During his first trip to Haiti in 2003, he volunteered with a group of nurses, a biomed technician and a doctor, performing open heart surgeries on critical patients – the first ever performed in the country.

Naturally, after February’s earthquake hit, he wanted to return.

“I really enjoyed my first trip there and really liked the people, but there wasn’t an opportunity before for a respiratory therapist to go there,” he explains,” so I went to Honduras instead. When the earthquake hit in Haiti, I knew there would be an opportunity to go back.”

Several healthcare professionals from various St. Louis hospitals, including employees from SSM Cardinal Glennon Children’s Medical Center, traveled to Haiti to help CRUDEM (the Center for the Rural Development of Milot). CRUDEM is a multifaceted mission dedicated to helping impoverished people in and around the village of Milot in Haiti. In 1986, the organization constructed country’s first hospital --  Hôpital Sacré Coeur -- because of the acute need for healthcare.

Dennis received word from Dr. William Guyol, chair of CRUDEM’s medical committee and SSM St. Mary’s Health Center physician, that the organization needed a respiratory therapist. Dennis promptly left for Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, on Feb. 16, to connect with a commuter flight bound for Haiti’s capital, and traveled alone, paying his own way.

When he first arrived in Haiti, Dennis surveyed two resident hospital facilities on the hospital grounds. Many earthquake victims arrived with just a suitcase and traveled many miles just to find medical care.

“My first impression was, ‘wow,’” he says. “The place had grown dramatically since I last visited. The hospitals were very crowded with people sleeping on the ground with mosquito tents surrounding them.”

The overwhelming scene didn’t deter Dennis from making the best of the situation. Many supplies were limited, but “we just made it work.”  “I even took a soda bottle and made it into an asthma spacer,” he says. “Many people with asthma weren’t taught how to properly use an inhaler.”

Dennis quickly was thrown in the midst of cases beyond intubation or other respiratory therapy needs. One of the most rewarding experiences, he says, was connecting with an 18-year-old student who was a sole survivor from a Port au Prince nursing school. The student lost her left arm and left leg due to gangrene and traveled for one month just to get to the resident hospital. Dennis and other volunteers helped care for her, dispensing daily medication, changing her dressings and helping her get into rehabilitation care.

“We talked a lot. At first, she was very depressed and felt like she didn’t have anything to live for,” he says.“It helped knowing that people cared for her and we were there to help her. Now she’s moving into a tent city and is feeling better about herself.”

The hospital facility has since expanded into a tent city, offering a place for patients to stay with family, as a temporary solution until they find a more permanent place to live.

“Many of them have no home, no belongings and no family to support them,” Dennis says. “They are ready to leave, but have no where to go. There were nuns gathering clothing and other supplies to give them, but it’s going to be an ongoing process.”

As he departed, Dennis says several physical therapists were arriving when he left to help victims recover from their injuries.

“The Haitians are extremely proud people, and they truly appreciate the care you are giving them,” he says. “One of the people came up to me as I was leaving, and handed me a handmade flute. We made friends with people we were taking care of and connected with them.”

What’s next for Dennis? With barely any time off from his two-week trip to Haiti, he has already left to volunteer this month on a mission trip with his church group in Bulgaria. He also plans to return to Haiti in the fall.

Department Secretary
I have worked in the medical field for 30 years now.  10 years in an outpatient dialysis facility as first secretary and then patient care tech.  Next 20 years in a transplant office as a secretary/patient scheduler/payroll, etc.  I was getting so stressed with the work load and lack of staffing that I was not my happy go lucky make the best of everything kind of person anymore. 
 
I was talking with a prior co-worker, at Cardinal Glennon, that I had kept in touch with over the many years after she changed jobs and she asked me, "would you consider changing jobs, I know just the right thing for you here at Cardinal Glennon".
 
I had been struggling with all of the continuous increasing demands on my job, not sleeping at night from worrying about not being able to ever catch up/contributing to delay in patient evaluation and praying every night about it for at least a year.  When this opportunity just came to me out of a simple conversation with a friend.  Coincidence?  I don't think so!
 
I came to Cardinal Glennon almost 2 years ago now and it has been amazing, one of the most blessed events in my life and I've had many.
 
Every single employee I have come in contact with at Cardinal Glennon is absolutely wonderful in every way.  I'm serious, I haven't found one, not one, person that isn't always professional and caring every day/every way.  Seems like no one ever has a bad day.
 
The respect that every one has for each other is wonderful.  From the Bio-med, housekeeping, nurses, doctors, transporters, secretaries to the shuttle bus drivers that bring us from the parking lot....everyone is kind, caring and truely a blessing to be associated with.
 
Everyone I pass in the halls everyday smiles and speaks, whether I've ever seen them before or not.  And the kids and their families are absolutley loved and cared for as if they were immediate family.
 
I was given a desk, not even in the department I was secretary for but in the dialysis unit because of my background in dialysis (and I now dialyze my husband of 30+ years at home after his bout with cancer) to make me feel at home and to help the workers in this familiar field.  WOW, I love these people!
 
Everything is Possible!
New Christmas Tradition

By Mary Enger

I was touched, as many were, when I heard about how one of my fellow employees and her family celebrated Christmas.  They have a large family and, instead of playing "Rob Your Neighbor" with gifts as they have in the past, they started a new tradition that involves more than their family members and helps numerous people.

Here's what they did: My coworker's sister decided to give everyone in the family $50 and, emulating something from the Oprah Show, asked them to see how many lives they could effect by growing the money and helping people.  They started with $1,200 and ended with $5,500 -- forming family groups and assisting people in homeless shelters, nursing homes, individual familes and more.

Then, on Christmas eve, instead of opening Christmas presents, each group shared their story of giving.  They were asked make a written document about their experience so it could be kept for years to come.  Some even made posters to present their stories, and it was all documented on video.

During the holiday season at my church, we talked about how to have a C2 (counter-cultural) Christmas by "doing this instead of that," by breaking old traditions and making new ones, and by paying attention to the real meaning of Christmas.  This is a perfect example and one we don't have to wait until Christmas 2010 to try!  Being counter-cultural is possible every day.  Everything is possible.  This family definitely shows us that!

Many thanks to them for sharing their story.  Three members of the family work at SSM facilities...perhaps they'll share more! And maybe others had a counter-cultural Christmas as well!

Mitral Valve Replacement
I had a major/massive heart attack on the 4th of July of this year (2009). My wife called 911 and Paramedics came to my house and worked on me not knowing that I had a heart attack.
 
The realization was confirmed in the emergency room at DePaul. They immediately went to work trying to save me. Dr Nanda got involved and put in a stint. This was not working and after awhile they put a scope down in me and realized that I had a malfunctioning Mitral Valve. At this time they got Dr. David Theodoro involved and he replaced the valve with a Bio Prosthetic Valve. I survived and am doing OK.
 
With all of this, they had put me into a self induced coma for eleven (11) days. This is how bad things had gotten for me. On about three occasions they felt strongly that I would not make it through this ordeal. ICU monitored me 24/7, constantly standing over me making sure all of the instruments that were attached to me were working properly.
 
Both Dr Nanda and Dr Theodoro has tole me that I was as bad as it could get, they both will confirm what I am saying and even the nurses in ICU.
 
I'm still here!!!!!! What a wonderful Staff you have, especially the ICU, Emergency Room, Dr Nanda and Dr Theodoro. I can't say enough about these folks.
 
The support that you gave to Me (Clark Lott) and my Wife (Angela) was greatly appreciated, DePaul Hospital will always have praise from me and my family.
 
Thanks So Much
 
Clark and Angela Lott
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