6/9/2010By Rachel Peine, Communications Specialist, North Operating Group
After a drunk driver hit Jerry Grossman head-on in November 2007, his life would dramatically change forever.
Jerry met his wife Debby after work for dinner on the evening of Nov. 30. After dinner, the two headed home in separate cars, with Jerry just four car lengths ahead of his wife. He was traveling east on Mexico Road toward O’Fallon and came up to the crest of a hill when he was hit by a woman driving 65 mph. The force of the accident killed the woman instantly. Jerry suffered a compound-fractured femur, broken arm, broken ribs, a crushed ankle…the list goes on.
“I never saw it coming, and I don’t really remember it,” Jerry explains. “I’ve had some flashbacks of the noise of the impact.”
Debby immediately ran over to help her husband, but she was unable to open the driver’s side door. “I remember telling my wife, ‘I’m sorry. I love you, but I’m not going to make it,’” he recalls.
Out of nowhere a woman approached Jerry’s car to help. “My wife asked her who she was. She said, ‘I’m a nurse, I will take care of him,’” Jerry says. “She told me not to be frightened and comforted me.”
Jerry says he is still alive because of God’s blessings. “The lady was an angel sent here to watch over me,” he says. “The police never got her name or spoke to her. I simply wanted to thank her.”
Jerry was rushed by ambulance to SSM St. Joseph Health Center in St. Charles. Plates, screws, pins and rods were used to repair Jerry’s broken, fractured and crushed bones.
“I overheard my daughter Lauren telling my wife, ‘I’m not sure if Dad is ever going to walk again,’” Jerry says. “I remember waking up and asking her what was she talking about? She then told me that I had to get better because I was going to be a grandfather.”
Jerry spent four days in ICU Rehab and then stayed another 17 days in SSM Rehab at the hospital. Each day he was challenged by his nurses and therapists who cared for him. He had to do many exercises from his wheelchair.
“The process of exercises they wanted me to do was so hard for me to learn, and I’m not a patient man,” he says, “but I made up my mind that I would survive this. The nurses and therapists had unconditional love and kindness. Those people are God’s gift.”
With injuries on opposite sides of his body, Jerry had a tough time with some exercises. It was difficult learning how to support and balance himself. Learning to use the walker was the most difficult. He had to embrace the ideas provided by his therapist to take the necessary steps to forward his healing process.
“There was one time when the therapists wanted me to take a step back and up with the walker, and I told them, ‘I’m not doing it,’” he recounts. “My therapist very succinctly said, ‘Mr. Grossman, ‘not’ is not a word in your vocabulary!’ You have to make up your mind that everyone in that hospital wants to help you. If you do what they ask, have a positive attitude, faith and the never quit believing, you will get better.”

This tough love would allow Jerry to become strong again, and soon he was able to go home. With the help of visits from his at-home physical and occupational therapists, he was able to return to limited work in his financial services group three months after his accident.
Jerry knew from the first week of his stay that he wanted to somehow thank the SSM Rehab department at St. Joseph Health Center. He spent months thinking about the perfect gesture and decided to create a permanent testimonial that others could read and gain confidence that they, too, could be healed.
“It was such a big deal for us personally because he wrote a tribute to the unit, framed it and delivered it to us on Christmas Eve,” said Sarah Cull-Bozich, director of SSM Rehab at St. Joseph Health Center. “It is a beautiful testimonial. It warms your heart just to read it.”
Jerry says he’s taken the kindness of the physicians, therapists and nurses and St. Joseph Health Center and has made it part of his practice by offering free financial advice to seniors who have been in the military and need assistance with their health care costs.
“I am so grateful to all the doctors, nurses and staff that provided such wonderful care for me,” Jerry says. “It changed my whole life, and it has made me more compassionate about others. I have a lot more understanding for people going through the same thing. St. Joseph Health Center will always have a special place in my heart. I will keep them in my prayers forever.” 5/24/2010
In January I was hospitalized at St. Mary's for a pulmonary issue. During my 8 day stay I was referred to Dr. Reza Rofougaran, who specializes in Endocrinology. For years my diabetes had been out of control. I had seen other specialist for my condition but had never been able to get it in check. During my hospitalization Dr. Rofougaran visited me often and provided me with best care ever. Regardless of the time of day his willingness to listen and take appropriate action was amazing. One conversation that stands out is when I asked him not to give up on me. His response was that he would not, and for me not to give up on him. Six months later my A1C has improved, I've lost weight and have a new attitude about my health. With poor health not alot is possible. With it Everything Is! Thank-You Dr. Rofougaran for your continued care, your the best! It's physicians like you that give SSM Health Care such a great name! Sincerely, Linda Schweiger
I, GLORIA THOMAS, REALLY BELIEVE THAT WE AT SSM HEALTH CARE CAN MAKE EVERYTHING POSSIBLE BY PUTTING OUR HEARTS INTO OUR JOBS AND EVERYTHING THAT WE DO. OVERCOMING OUR CHALLENLES BY CONQUERING THEM AND EVERYONE BRING TO THE TABLE THEIR EXPERTISES.IT IS POSSIBLE TO KNOW THAT AT THE END OF THE DAY YOU HAVE SATISFIED, PLEASED, AND MADE SOMEONE HAPPY. 5/14/2010I started with SSM St. Clare on April 12 after being at another health care institution for 18 years. I have to say, this has been the best move and I am not only happy being here, but very honored to be a part of SSM. I was able to Mission Days and could not be more impressed and moved! What a way to honor ALL employees and make each of us feel like we are a part of something special. I am looking forward to my time here at SSM and proud of being a part of something very special. I have always believed everything is possible and now I can live that philosophy even more than I ever have!
Maria Webb RN, BSN
CDMP 5/13/2010
I really just had to share my joy about mission day 2010,this was my first opportunity to attend this wonderful event and I wanted to say that I am very pleased with what SSM had to offer. There are not very many places that you can go work and be reminded of why you work for that company,how and why the company was started, and refresh you in the process! The keynote speaker did an exceptional job, I am very happy that I had the option of listening to her speak.(Dr. Bertice Berry) I am also grateful to know the hospitals financial situation (its great yay!!) how they use some of the money to fund state of the art equipment,to rebuild/remodel for the needs of patients and visitors,and most of all to keep us employed, it shocked me a little that they took out time to actully give us that info most places keep that information under wraps, soI really hope that people here feel as happy as me when they leave mission day. I try my best to keep a positive attitude everyday and not to take things personal on a daily, so after attending this event I am definately going to enhance that by taking a peice of that day with me to guide me when those stressful moments come about. I am very happy that I chose to work for SSM,I know that everything is possible :) 4/26/2010
By Rachel Peine, Communications Specialist North Operating Group
When Dennis Tuchalski isn’t working as a respiratory therapist at SSM St. Joseph Health Center, you’ll likely find him half way across the world.
But don’t expect to find him on vacation. His personal mission is to travel to third-world countries to provide much-needed medical care. It’s almost like a second career for him.
“You get to do things you aren’t used to doing, which is a great learning experience,” Dennis explains. “These trips have taught me to be versatile.”
He’s been to the poorest places, including Honduras, Haiti, and is soon traveling to Bulgaria. During his first trip to Haiti in 2003, he volunteered with a group of nurses, a biomed technician and a doctor, performing open heart surgeries on critical patients – the first ever performed in the country.
Naturally, after February’s earthquake hit, he wanted to return.
“I really enjoyed my first trip there and really liked the people, but there wasn’t an opportunity before for a respiratory therapist to go there,” he explains,” so I went to Honduras instead. When the earthquake hit in Haiti, I knew there would be an opportunity to go back.”
Several healthcare professionals from various St. Louis hospitals, including employees from SSM Cardinal Glennon Children’s Medical Center, traveled to Haiti to help CRUDEM (the Center for the Rural Development of Milot). CRUDEM is a multifaceted mission dedicated to helping impoverished people in and around the village of Milot in Haiti. In 1986, the organization constructed country’s first hospital -- Hôpital Sacré Coeur -- because of the acute need for healthcare.
Dennis received word from Dr. William Guyol, chair of CRUDEM’s medical committee and SSM St. Mary’s Health Center physician, that the organization needed a respiratory therapist. Dennis promptly left for Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, on Feb. 16, to connect with a commuter flight bound for Haiti’s capital, and traveled alone, paying his own way.
When he first arrived in Haiti, Dennis surveyed two resident hospital facilities on the hospital grounds. Many earthquake victims arrived with just a suitcase and traveled many miles just to find medical care.
“My first impression was, ‘wow,’” he says. “The place had grown dramatically since I last visited. The hospitals were very crowded with people sleeping on the ground with mosquito tents surrounding them.”
The overwhelming scene didn’t deter Dennis from making the best of the situation. Many supplies were limited, but “we just made it work.” “I even took a soda bottle and made it into an asthma spacer,” he says. “Many people with asthma weren’t taught how to properly use an inhaler.”
Dennis quickly was thrown in the midst of cases beyond intubation or other respiratory therapy needs. One of the most rewarding experiences, he says, was connecting with an 18-year-old student who was a sole survivor from a Port au Prince nursing school. The student lost her left arm and left leg due to gangrene and traveled for one month just to get to the resident hospital. Dennis and other volunteers helped care for her, dispensing daily medication, changing her dressings and helping her get into rehabilitation care.
“We talked a lot. At first, she was very depressed and felt like she didn’t have anything to live for,” he says.“It helped knowing that people cared for her and we were there to help her. Now she’s moving into a tent city and is feeling better about herself.”
The hospital facility has since expanded into a tent city, offering a place for patients to stay with family, as a temporary solution until they find a more permanent place to live.
“Many of them have no home, no belongings and no family to support them,” Dennis says. “They are ready to leave, but have no where to go. There were nuns gathering clothing and other supplies to give them, but it’s going to be an ongoing process.”
As he departed, Dennis says several physical therapists were arriving when he left to help victims recover from their injuries.

“The Haitians are extremely proud people, and they truly appreciate the care you are giving them,” he says. “One of the people came up to me as I was leaving, and handed me a handmade flute. We made friends with people we were taking care of and connected with them.”
What’s next for Dennis? With barely any time off from his two-week trip to Haiti, he has already left to volunteer this month on a mission trip with his church group in Bulgaria. He also plans to return to Haiti in the fall. 4/13/2010
By Lauren Lubus, Communication Specialist SSM Cardinal Glennon Children's Medical Center
Sometimes we lose sight of how incredible working in health care really is. We go about our day in the office…checking email, answering calls, going to meetings, keeping busy. But when you have the chance to meet a patient or family and learn their incredible story, your perspective can change…big time.
You learn that life is so very precious, and that we should truly be grateful for every healthy day we have. You are reminded that daily inconveniences or frustrations at home are tiny compared to having a sick child or loved one in the hospital…with an uncertain outcome. You realize that the ability to make a patient smile for just a second or simply listening to a worried father when he longs for encouraging words can be one of the most rewarding feelings.
When I feel deflated, I think about a fragile little boy with a brain tumor who always waves when I stop by his room…a two-year-old girl who recently went home from the hospital when doctors did not expect her to survive just two weeks before…a nurse who accepts there is a reason her son now has cancer after treating oncology patients her entire career…a nurse down the hall who is about to have a baby girl…a smiling four-year-old boy who loves his new kidney…a patient who has been coming to the hospital for several years, giving others courage to carry on when he learned his friend passed away from an incurable disease…
Sitting at my desk, I think about the miracles that happen every day at SSM Cardinal Glennon Children’s Medical Center because of our doctors and nurses, and that even those who are not clinicians can make a big impact, just by being in the moment with a patient on a remarkable journey. 3/30/2010
From Patti Bradley, director of women and infant services at St. Clare Health Center
Sometimes, due to circumstances beyond all control, precious little babies become “residents” of our special care nursery. Often, there are difficult family situations, and these babies become long-term patients of the nursery, waiting for recovery and, ultimately, discharge to a foster family. These babies can be in the nursery for eight weeks or greater, only being visited by a social worker or the Division of Family Services.
It’s always easy to see the miracle of birth every day on a labor and delivery unit. There are so many eagerly awaited, happily anticipated babies that are greeted by loving parents and family. But what happens to special needs babies who are admitted to the Level 2 nurseries and custody is taken by the state? These babies need love, comfort and human touch just to survive. In a special care nursery, of course, you have all the high-tech amenities to provide for the baby’s medical needs. But, who provides for the emotional needs of a special care newborn when the parents are unable?
At St. Clare Health Center, I have personally witnessed that all things are possible when you have committed staff, whose primary focus is to truly deliver exceptional, even miraculous, care to our tiniest patients.
Being a new Special Care Nursery, the staff at St. Clare has had to learn many new competencies in the past year. One thing they have proven they did not have to learn, is their ability to love a baby with special needs. When Sandra Bullock won her Oscar, she gave thanks to every woman who loves and takes care of children, who are not their own. Watching that acceptance speech, I immediately thought of the nursing staff at St. Clare, and what they have done for two very special patients in our nursery, who have been with us nearly a month.
Nurses have purchased clothes for the babies, and said, “They deserve to look cute, too.” Many items have been donated by staff including a bouncy seat and a swing to soothe these babies during long periods of irritability. Nurses are coming in on their days off to bring the babies needed items or just to visit, because they miss them. It is not uncommon to come in to the nursery and find one baby or the other, swaddled to a nurse, being held and rocked.
What is so significantly amazing is how these little babies are making eye contact with the staff and really beginning to bond to human touch. The nurses have discovered that bottle feeding the babies in a position that closely resembles the cradle of breast feeding, increases the baby’s desire to suckle, which is inherently difficult for these babies. On a very fussy day for our littlest patient, it seemed nothing could soothe her, until the nurse swaddled the baby across her chest, with the baby’s face buried deep into the crevice of her neck; like a miracle, the baby slept in that position and was instantly comforted against the skin of another human being.
The nurses report it is easy to “mother” these babies, but what is not easy, is to understand “why” these babies must come into the world in this fragile condition. These babies are experiencing a type of pain we may not even know as adults.
What the staff does know is they have discovered love and compassion is measurable: these babies are growing, gaining weight and bonding with their caregivers. What the staff is doing today, will impact these babies forever! Love makes all things possible, even in the tiniest of patients. 3/22/2010
By Mary Enger, Public Relations Manager, SSM St. Joseph Health Center
When Hank Clever, MD, signed up to go to Haiti more than six months ago, he thought he knew exactly what it would be like. After all, he’d been there before to conduct a dermatology clinic, so he was familiar with the people and their needs.
But that was before the devastating earthquake on January 12. Dr. Clever knew then that things definitely would be different. What he didn’t know was how different.
“It was one of the most heart-wrenching things I have ever done in my life,” he said just days after his return. “I am exhausted.”
Dr. Clever and his group from Jasper, IN, combined with volunteers from St. Louis, left on Saturday, January 30 for Hôpital Sacré Coeur in Milot, Haiti. With just 73 beds, the hospital is the largest private hospital in the north of Haiti.
The team included two dermatologists (Dr. Clever and Mike McCadden, MD), a plastic surgeon (Chris Paletta, MD), three physical therapists, two construction workers and Reporter Casey Nolan from KSDK-Channel 5. After an approximately 17-hour trip – St. Louis to New York to Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic – they flew into a small airport in Cap-Haïtien, Haiti. From there, they took a 12-mile gravel road to Milot.
“They shoveled nine people and luggage into an SUV,” Dr. Clever says. “We couldn’t move or see out.”
When he found out his luggage was going on top of the SUV, Dr. Clever says he decided to take his camera out of his bag. “The road isn’t paved,” he continued, “and there were a lot of pot holes. The luggage fell off four times!’
Once they arrived in Milot, the work began and never stopped. “It’s hard to imagine the severity, the number of injuries, and the need,” Dr. Clever says. “It was like being in a war without the shooting.”
The hospital is so small, he says, there was a problem with overcrowding.
“We were tripping over people, and we couldn’t work,” he says. “We had to put a limitation on visitors and the people weren’t so happy, but they were very gracious about it all.”
And, while they were using three of the five rooms in a school house across the street as part of the hospital, still more room – and electricity – was needed. Patients were on thin mattresses or straw on the floor until beds and cots were donated.
“Can you imagine,” Dr. Clever said, “having just had your leg amputated and trying to lie on a straw mattress? Not being able to get up by yourself? It was difficult to watch.”
During the week that Dr. Clever was there, the military plowed a banana field to set up five large army tents to hold 150 cots and added electricity to three school rooms and two of the tents.
He says the amount of supplies and people there to help was amazing, but that it was a gradual organization process. Each evening, they would meet to discuss what went wrong and how they could do better.
The dermatology clinic appointments already had been set up before the earthquake, and since there was no way to communicate with those coming to the clinic, Dr. Clever held the clinic in the morning. But in the afternoon, his role turned to wound care and assisting in the operating room.
“Everyone pitched in and did what they could do,” he says. “There were two oral surgeons in the OR administering anesthesia and a dentist doing triage.”
But the real heroes, Dr. Clever says, are the people of Haiti. “This is a people who have nothing who are taking care of people who have even less,” he explained. But among the “horror” Dr. Clever describes, there were also miracles.
It was late afternoon on Tuesday and they had seen everyone they could see that day. When they checked the waiting area to see who was left, there was an older woman holding a little boy, and an older man. Both the boy and man had their heads wrapped in gauze.
“They had been waiting – patiently – all day, and had actually arrived at the hospital the night before. The woman and boy had walked from Port-au-Prince,” Dr. Clever says, “which is 100 miles and a two-and-a half-week walk on gravel roads and rough terrain. The man had walked from Cap-Haïtien.”
“We undid the gauze on the little boy – who we later found out was 3 years old – and his left ear was dangling on his cheek. He had been hit by a brick during the earthquake and since the wound was not bad enough to have an amputation, he couldn’t get any care [in Port-au-Prince].”
The woman with him was his aunt, and she had had lost everything. She walked the two and a half weeks to get care for her nephew as he was all she had left.
The man in the waiting area had been mugged in Cap-Haïtien, Dr. Clever says. After a gang took his wallet, they poured gas on his head and lit a match. His scalp, face and neck were “gone” on the left side. After the mugging, he bandaged himself and walked to Milot, which is about 12 miles.
“The miracle is that neither wound was infected,” Dr. Clever says. The man received a skin graft and the boy got his ear fixed and both were okay. On Friday, we took the dressing off the little boy and the ear was back in place.”
Dr. Clever says the woman looked at the boy and cried. “She wanted to give us something,” he says, “but she had nothing to give.
“I truly believe that these people are suffering in place of us,” he continued. “They are suffering so that our hearts may be open, and we may see the true riches that they have and our own poverty amidst our wealth of ’things.’” 3/9/2010By Deena Fischer, Network Director of Public Relations
Most of the male population couldn't begin to understand why women do what they do to their hair. But to many women, we stress when we can't curl, straighten or blow dry our hair correctly - a "bad hair day."
This past weekend a story about an SSM oncology nurse touched me personally. Though I have never met Laura Wulf or her son, the story touched me because of her compassionate support for children with cancer led her to bring the St. Baldrick's fundraiser to St. Louis six years ago. Last Fall, Laura's 2-year-old son Jude was diagnosed with cancer.
I thought about this story this morning when I was in a hurry to get out the door to get to work. Every morning, I have my 10-month old baby girl sitting in the hallway next to me and she watches as I blow dry, curl, pull, tease and spray my hair. I give her a baby brush to hold and keep her busy. I then take her hair that is now growing at a rapid pace and pull it into a tiny pony-tail and place a bow up there.
St. Baldrick's fundraiser recruits teams to raise money and on event day, "shavees" get their locks shaved to show solidarity with the pediatric cancer patients.
I felt a connection to Laura and her passion to help others. You see, I grow my hair long and then cut it off to donate to "Locks of Love." It brings me joy the day that I pull it into a pony-tail and the hairdresser always asks, "Are you sure you want to do this?" Then in a quick snip my hair is off my head and in a package to someone who will receive it in the form of a wig. I always wonder about the joy the recipient might feel when they receive the wig. I might not be able to help someone with their cancer diagnosis but my small donation might provide comfort to a stranger going through chemotherapy.
I know there are other people that participate in Locks of Love or St. Baldricks. What's your story? Why do you do it?
Here's a link to the story about the SSM Cardinal Glennon nurse and her son, Jude. I am praying for you, Jude.
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