Navigating your family's neuro-diverse journey

Where to start

by Megan Puddy, BCBA, Tara Geier, BCBA & Mallory Engelhardt, BCBA

If you are new to the world of neurodiversity or are just seeking some additional information on where to start, you have come to the right place. Perhaps you and your child have recently made it through the diagnostic process and the extensive paperwork or are waiting for services to begin as your child’s team is prepped. This process may be overwhelming at times but there are things you can do right away to support your child and set them up for success. There is significant research supporting play-based learning and it can be incorporated into everyday routines and play opportunities right at home. Time to put down the paperwork and enjoy time with your little one. Let these tips be your guide for where to start.

Engaging your child through play

Setting up: Keep toys and snacks in bins with lids and out of reach so your child is more inclined to ask for help to gain access to them, thus increasing communication opportunities.

Reduce clutter in the child’s immediate surroundings to reduce competition for being the most interesting thing in the room.

During play: position yourself in front of your child in a way that you can both easily look at and touch each other.

Watch and listen to your child to identify what captures your child’s attention and join your child in those activities.

Let your inhibitions go! It’s time to be silly and playful to cue your child into you and expand on play interactions.

One great activity to increase engagement is singing with actions. During songs with actions, pause and wait for eye contact, a gesture, or vocalization from your child, then continue with the song. You may want to incorporate guiding your child with physical touch, to imitate actions in songs if imitation doesn’t come naturally.

Repetition of songs and routines is key to your child building their repertoire.

As you practice establishing new routines, remember that a strong and loving relationship is the strongest foundation. As our Dr. Treffert regularly reminded us, “Love is a good therapist, too!"

If you're looking for an evaluation, contact SSM Health Behavioral Health for evaluation and diagnosis at 920-926-4179. To contact SSM Health Treffert Center Autism Services for center, home and community-based services, call 920-907-3928.

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